Can people really change?
I don’t know…
How we each answer this question is a REFLECTION on our BELIEFS and our level of consciousness.
There is no right or wrong answer, your answer simply is what it is for you at this moment in time.
I used to believe that people couldn’t change. That our beliefs, behaviours and personality – for “good” and “bad” – were simply who we were/are…
I valued “consistency” in others. I wanted them to be the same all the time every time because then I knew how to relate to them. It was good when people just “stayed the same”.
At that time it “worked” for me to believe that. I wasn’t ready for another way.
These days… it’s me who has “CHANGED”…
(or as I now understand it: “EVOLVED”)
I’ve evolved so much it can be difficult to relate and connect with others in the same ways and on the same levels as I once did.
I’m also now continuing to evolve at such a fast pace that it’s difficult to explain to others and for them to understand or feel they “know” me. Sometimes there is a shift weekly, other times it’s almost daily.
Through research I do, people I speak with, a deep and profound meditation experience and/or a session with a mentor … what I thought or believed last week could be different this week… And I’m ok with that.
EVOLUTION towards a GREATER, more POSITIVE STATE of BEing, is a good thing (in my world).
What started 7 years ago as a shift away from everything I’d been CHASING and focusing on – “CAREER SUCCESS” and “SPORTING SUCCESS” – for ten years, has today resulted in a NEW LIFE, new BELIEFS and a completely different way of being and living my life.
It’s also not one thing or one area of life, it’s everything. It’s everything because it’s all CONNECTED. You cannot evolve in one area and have it not spill over into others areas.
So… today, if people ask me: can people really change?
The answer is, of course “YES”.
But… (here are the #9 secrets to making changes that stick!)
🧚 You have to BE WILLING to do the “work”…
🧚 You have to be willing to LET GO of your old PERSONALITY…
🧚 You have to be willing to let go of society’s “CONDITIONING” and “PROGRAMMING” and “EXPECTATIONS”…
🧚 You have to be willing to UNLEARN…
🧚 You have to be willing to step into the unknown…
🧚 You have to be willing to let go of what doesn’t serve you inc. relationships, foods, drinks, behaviours, beliefs.
🧚 You have to be willing to potentially lose friends and/or have your friendship group change (you may even experience a period of having “no friends”)…
🧚 You have to be willing to be unpopular and/or potentially upset people…
And… you have to be willing to learn that the world simply is not what it appears…
Often times it is a crisis – a health scare, an accident or losing a loved one – that pushes us to evolve or to RE-THINK how we do things or how we live our life.
Other times (as it was for me) it can simply be a matter of feeling a deep DISSATISFACTION with the STATUS QUO. A knowingness that there is so much more to life.
Where that crisis or dissatisfaction leads you is entirely up to you…
Most will either (a) do nothing and simply push down and/or numb the cry from their soul or (b) will start the process but revert back to their COMFORT ZONE.
That’s the truth because the path isn’t easy!
Very few will truly COMMIT to their evolution. And that’s completely ok because maybe that’s not their calling right now. It may not be their path in this lifetime. We all evolve at different rates and times. And that is perfect actually.
So many people ask me now “what do you do?”…
That answer is not short or easy to answer… because it’s ever evolving as I evolve.
But… I work with people who are ready and willing to EVOLVE and COMMIT to their path.
If you are ready…
Starting in January 2018 Mark and I are running respective 6-month EVOLUTION IMMERSION Programs for a small group of amazing people who are on THE PATH.
This will be a DEEP IMMERSION into your CONSCIOUSNESS and transcending your current REALITY.
This JOURNEY into your inner-world, starting in January, is about EXPANDING into who you really are. It’s about tapping into your consciousness, identifying the roadblocks which keep you stuck over and over again!
And… GROWING, CHANGING, EVOLVING so YOU CAN live a HAPPY and FULFILLING LIFE.
The bonus part is, because of the amazing world of technology, it’s all available in your home so you can be based anywhere!
But first… next month, on Wednesday December 6th, together with Mark and I are hosting a FREE webinar:
>>PROJECT 2018: More Time, Less Stress, More Vitality through living Holistically.<<<
In addition to “unlocking the little known secrets to having More Time, Less Stress and living a Balanced Holistic Lifestyle in 90 mins”, during this live call we will also be sharing more about the 6-month Evolution Immersion program.
Register for PROJECT 2018 at: www.daliceandmark.com/project2018
Fulfil your greatest purpose,